søndag 21. desember 2008

How to make her fall in love with you!

This is probably one of he toughest jobs for every guy. They are at a loss of words when they even try to think of asking a girl out. But before you spell this out, you'll have to make your ground strong and only then she would not decline. If you are in haste and want to make things happen just like that, you would be doing the wrong thing.

While you are trying to ask a girl out, you need to relax instead of feeling restless and anxious. These are wrong emotions for the moment and would actually mislead you. So instead of listening to everyone's story and drawing conclusions, you can create your own love story and you can look into these 3 tips for assistance...

Don't Use Cheesy Lines-

Pick up lines are usually cheesy and they can no longer impress girls. Instead of going that way, you can juts be yourself and allow things to flow. Those pick up lines and movie dialogues are great turn offs, so avoid. You can candidly ask if she is willing to go out for a movie without.

Friendship is a Must-

If you can make friendship with the girl you desire, you can probably get things very easy. Girls usually have a soft corner for their friends and they wouldn't mind accepting their proposal. Also if you are friends you can al\ways go out in groups and then propose to go out for lunch alone, I mean just the two of you.

Try Hanging out with Her Instead of Dating-

Girls are weary about the dating business and they are really confused as well. So instead of uttering the word "date", just say that you would love to "hang out" with her. That would make her more comfortable.

Now you know how to approach, so without wasting any more time, just work on it.

How to get a girls phone nr?

Men simply cannot find out the best possible way to ask a girl for her phone number. Though this is one of the most crucial phases of a relationship, but guys often fail to carry this out with ease. Guys feel nervous and wrecked at the very thought of asking for phone numbers; they are usually afraid of being slapped in public. Well, that's truly something to be worried about. So before you actually ask for it, you need to build the bridge so that she cannot refuse you.

How?

Well, it's all in here....

Make Friends-

It is very difficult to be friends with girls, but you can always try. Girls prefer guys who are well-mannered, who are helpful and know how to respect women and elders. These are the basic traits. So adapt all these and work accordingly. In your attempt to make friends with her don't just go over-the-top. Introduce yourself and don't try to act too smart as girls hate that. Be modest and very polite.

Converse and Communicate-

You should be able to converse with her very easily. Try to keep things short and simple during the initial stages and when you are confident that she likes your company, you can put the question forward. I am sure she'll not repudiate. Girls like men who are soft spoken but have a good presence of mind. Sense of humor can be an added advantage as well. But they do not prefer men who blabber all the time and have an opinion about everything. So be composed when needed and speak only when you know its time for you.

Compliment Her-

Girls love to be praised and complimented; this can be done easily and is a sure-shot winner. Also while complimenting her, make sure you express your desire to her better. Your curiosity is what she demands and that will definitely make her bound to give you her phone number.

Does she like you?

Guys can be really funny when it comes to wooing a girl they desire or even having her around. Though guys always wear a cool attitude and appear calm and composed, they often are reduced to mere wrecks when they meet the girl they like as they have no clue as to what and how she feels about him. Girls are known to be emotional and soft but when guys are out on their flirting mission and their chatty jujitsu, they tend to feel nervous and shy.

But I would suggest hat you need not be nervous as it's very easy to understand what a girl is feeling. Remember, girls have some predefined reactions and these would manifest what a girl feels and wants. Look for some of these signs in a girl...

Note the Body Language-

The way a girl moves, talks, takes a sip and looks can reveal everything that she has on her mind. This is the numero Uno guys. Observe her very well to find how often she makes eye contact with you; the more she does the better for you. Eye contacts are a signal that you are wanted. She would also play with her locks, adjust her clothes and jewellery and fiddle with the straw at times to grab your attention. A girl who desires you would have a flirty body language, quite similar to what you wear when you are trying to please a girl. So you should know.

Is She Playing Cool? -

Girls often try not to react to those guys who seem to be interested in them. Now, I can't help this; girls have always been like this. Even if they like a guy they would be manipulating and trying to act indifferent till the time she possibly can. When you are with common friends, she might as well try to ignore you. Make a note and then try to leave the place as soon as you can. But before you leave, just announce that you have a party elsewhere and you want a girl to accompany you....anyone!! If she turns at you, you should know that she likes you.

Have You Felt the Midas touch? -

Well, if the girl you desire has also a liking for you; she would try to be touchy at times. She would lean on you and express her interest through her body. She might also touch you every now and then, just as a friendly gesture. But you should know what it indicates.